Children can only regulate emotions they can name. Programs like RULER put this front-and-center with tools like the Mood Meter, but any class can build a shared vocabulary in a term.
Start with a small set: four to eight words along energy and pleasantness axes. Use them in the first five minutes — see the first five minutes. Add words as the class outgrows the set.
This is the practical face of SEL and often the missing half of mindfulness-only programs.
Last reviewed: 2026-04-30
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